Originally posted on July 10, 2016
I search for a certain level of “brattiness” in a domme. There seems to be a baseline level of brattiness that the average lady has and if I see that a woman has a little above that, I get excited. What constitutes brattiness is probably a subject
Miss Laila is on the upper end of brattiness. The great majority of her posts are brag posts and the rest are about how shitty she treats men. She’s also a real- life dominatrix and posts pics from her sessions, which I think adds a lot to the fantasy experience for a sub. Still, I was bothered because racial humiliation seems to be her favorite fetish and I’ve already wrote extensively why I don’t like that have fetish.
I do think that racial humiliation coming from a minority, as Miss Laila is, is a bit different. It’s one thing to come from a place of privilege as a white person, it’s another coming from a place of minority. If I decide to wake up one day and hate all white people, how would I exist in society? Everyone I work with is white and white people occupy most positions of power in this country. Conversely, a white person that hates minorities can go about their life with little interruption.
Still, I’m conflicted about it and for that reason I decided I would just follow for awhile.I made a throwaway response to a tweet she made:
And that not only got me blocked but the recipient of a large tirade from Miss Laila:
I mean WOW just fucking WOW this was fucking epic.
Wait, what does bara aya mean? *Shrugs*
Let’s me start by saying that I wasn’t trolling. I troll a lot in real life, but not on my fetish twitter because that will get me blocked. I speak my mind and I generally have a pessimistic demeanor. That was just really an offhand remark that I hoped would get a like or maybe even a re-tweet and a response.
Also, this should be very obvious: I pay women to humiliate me and I just got one of my favorite all-time interactions on Twitter for free. Without even trying! I would have paid for the tiradebut she blocked me. She could have also just said “hey, annoying pest sub, tribute me or shut the fuck up,” and I would have gladly tributed. It’s happened before and I have gladly paid in those instances.
Now, I don’t expect to be treated differently because of my skin color, that’s just crazy, but isn’t that exactly what just happened? I got an epic Twitter rant from Miss Laila because I’m black and I have opinions.
So, as this was my only interaction with Miss Laila, I can’t speak to her service as a domme. She’s obviously super bratty, so keep that in mind if you decide to interact with her. She has a Niteflirt line that has affordable but pretty bad reviews. She also has a clips4sale and iwantclips stores but I haven’t bought any clips because the quality looks poor, like she shot the videos with a webcam.
For my part, I’ll probably lurk on her account from time to time. She’s a unique person in the hobby.
